My latest blog post for Maria Shriver: enjoy!
How I Derailed My Career & Discovered My Life
Nothing is impossible!
I just love this picture: It reminds me that anything is possible—if we just set our minds to it. Sure, it’s easy to be daunted by the challenge before us (e.g. getting our butt out of the house to do a run or go to the gym; lose the weight—for good; finally start living the life we want to live [instead of the one others create for us]…the list goes on).
But visualize the success you want to have, every day, and that success can be yours. NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE!
Half-Empty or Half-Full: How Your Outlook Affects Your Health
What’s your worldview? Are you an optimist or a pessimist by nature? Do you always expect good things to happen or are you waiting for the other shoe to drop? Our mental attitude affects how we interact with others and how we respond to events and the comings and goings in our daily lives. Remarkably, our mental attitude also affects our health and well-being. How we feel, not only mentally but also physically, is significantly impacted by what has been termed our “internal guidance mechanism”.
Back in the 1960s, a plastic surgeon named Maxwell Maltz wrote Psycho-Cybernetics, a groundbreaking book that has been continuously in print for
almost 50 years. Psycho-Cybernetics, one of the original self-help books, popularized the idea that the subconscious part of our mind is a goal-seeking mechanism. Maltz famously compared the subconscious to a guided missile, stating that the subconscious would do exactly what it is programmed to do. If you want to achieve a goal, Maltz proposed, visualize its successful completion. Visualize yourself driving that red sports car. Visualize the fun you and your family are having on your trip to Hawaii or Italy. Visualize living in your beautiful home. Provided that the instructions are clear, your subconscious will go to work to cause your goal to manifest in your life.
This wasn’t mumbo-jumbo. Maltz was a scientist and made a very strong case for his theory, backed up by decades of interaction with his patients. Since then, of course, hundreds if not thousands of self-help gurus have sprung up, publishing books, giving seminars, and being interviewed in broadcast media. Maltz, Napoleon Hill, Norman Vincent Peale, Emmet Fox, and Ernest Holmes were the originals, the pioneers who promulgated the concepts and precepts of taking charge of your own life.
In terms of health, attitude is critically important.
How do you respond, internally, if a nearby co-worker coughs or sneezes throughout the day? Have you noticed that if you think that you, too, are going to get sick, that in fact you do? But others, exposed to the same environment, do not. Is it possible that these others paid no attention to the ill co-worker, that they did not internalize the notion that they were being exposed to contagion? Such a scenario is not necessarily true, but it is possible. The conclusion could be that our thoughts matter. As Earl Nightingale, one of the pioneers of the personal development field, famously stated, “You become what you think about”.
So what should we do? Think happy thoughts all day long? Not really. But it is important to remember that attitude counts. If we are more frequently seeing the glass as half-full rather than half-empty, it is possible that we are going to have a more productive, more successful, more fulfilled day. And, unbeknownst to us, our subconscious mind will build on those successes and help to bring us more success, personal growth, happiness, and well-being.
The 6 Best Pre- and Post-Workout Foods
If you ask most people what’s the best pre- or post-workout meal or snack, they’ll probably mention sports drinks, protein powders, protein bars, and anything but plain old food.
Well, this is continually being proven wrong by researchers, sports nutritionists, and exercise specialists.
The latest research by McMaster University professor Stuart Phillips shows that the top foods for athletes—and regular exercisers—are:
1) Chocolate milk: offers post-workout water, protein, electrolytes, and carbohydrates—and not to mention, it tastes good too! According to Phillips, chocolate milk helps rehydrate your body after exercise and recharges damaged muscles. For these reasons, it’s far superior, he says, to water and sports drinks when it comes to post-workout recovery.
For more information on chocolate milk, click on rechargewithmilk.ca (full disclosure: this site, recommended by Phillips, is sponsored by the Dairy Farmers of Canada—but it’s actually quite informative and packed with good information—why I’m okay with linking to it. They’re also sponsoring the giveaway at the end of this piece…and free stuff is always good!)

Try steel cut oats: they take longer to cook (about 30 minutes) but have double the fiber of rolled oats!
2) Oatmeal: contains carbs, fiber and B vitamins (which are key for the breakdown of carbs into glucose and energy in the body—among other things).
Oatmeal, with protein-packed almonds, is the perfect pre-workout meal (particularly if you’re exercising in the morning). I also like to add dried cranberries, zest from a lemon, cinnamon (which helps control blood sugar), and a drizzle of agave nectar into mine. Just had a bowl this morning!
3) Salmon: rich in protein, iron, vitamin B12 (critical for healthy nervous system functioning and making blood cells) and omega-3 fatty acids, which are important for brain function, reducing inflammation in the body, and normal growth and development.
My favorite way of cooking it: Marinate it in a little lemon juice and spices (try O&Co Salt & Herb Mix for Fish, $8.50; www.oliviersandco.com/salt-and-herb-mix-for-fish.html), drizzle with olive oil, and cook covered at 400ºF for 20 minutes. Shut off the oven, take off the cover, and let sit in the warm oven for another 15 minutes.
4) Blueberries: high in carbs (key for energy) and free-radical-fighting antioxidants (more free radicals are produced in the body during exercise).
I like to add frozen blueberries to almond milk and blend up with a frozen banana and some agave nectar—the perfect fuel-up smoothie!
5) Sweet potatoes: chockfull of iron (which helps your body produce oxygen during exercise) and antioxidants beta-carotene as well as vitamins C and E.
Don’t have the patience or time to cook them in the oven? Simply puncture a few times with a fork and cook them on high in the microwave, on a paper towel or plate, for 4 to 5 minutes.
6) Yogurt: high in calcium (important for strong bones and muscle contractions) and energy-boosting vitamin B12. Look for yogurts with little to no added sugar and gut-busting lactobacteria or acidophilus (healthy bacteria that helps digestion).
I love Greek Fage (pronounced “fah-yeh”) Total 2% yogurt with granola (for carbs and taste) and a tiny bit of honey mixed in.
There’s no Gatorade on Phillips’ list, no packaged protein bars, no fruity gummy chews.
Now, don’t get me wrong: I’ll probably still stick these into my bike “bento” snack pack (http://www.teamestrogen.com/prodFB_840200.html) for races because they’re so convenient, but the important take-home message from Phillips’ research: you don’t have to spend a lot of money on processed sports foods at other times.
Real food is still your best bet.
3 Gorgeous Hair Products I Swear By
I’m not a “hair” person: I like easy hairstyles that don’t require a lot of effort—and can be easily pulled back when I’m working out. And I generally don’t like using products; if I do, I typically don’t rave about them. But I have to say I LOVE these products (I’ve just started using them over the past couple of months and my hair hasn’t looked better)—why I wanted to share them.
Blow Pro Blow Up Root Lift Concentrate: Packed with vitamins and protein from almonds and milk (and free of sulfates, parabens, and artificial fillers), this good-for-you spray adds volume. Plus, it makes your home blowout look smooth and silky (and I swear it makes my blowout last too, although no where on the packaging does it claim this!). $21; beautybar.com.
It’s a 10 Miracle Leave-In Product: I spray this on before I put on my swim cap to do my laps in the pool. It helps protect my color and leaves my hair silky soft afterward (not dry and rough as my hair was before I started using this). Plus, it helps detangle my four-year-old’s long, wavy strands! $11.95; stylebell.com.
Kim Vo Hair Brilliant Luster Glaze: If you’ve ever had a clear glaze (also called a gloss) put on your hair at a salon to give it shine, you’ll love this at-home botanical-based version for a lot less. It gives hair radiance and helps enhance your color. A must-try! But, for best results, follow the directions as to how to apply and how long to leave on. $24; kimvo.com.
Skip lunch/coffee with a friend … and try this instead!
Today I was supposed to have lunch with an acquaintance of mine—and instead, she suggested we go for an early morning walk in a local park. It was a great idea! Instead of sitting and talking over food, which studies show can sometimes result in you eating more than you want, we walked…and talked, despite the drizzling rain outdoors. And not only did I feel great afterward as I got fresh air and exercise, we also traded tips and advice about life with kids. So next time you’re supposed to have lunch or coffee with a friend, take it outdoors. You’ll feel invigorated!
Wow! A truly amazing success story…a must watch
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